PERSONAL: 10 Things to Accept Before Turning 28

Life is fast.
[LITERALLY] this may sound cliche, and I still have yet to realize it myself, but it’s so true. If you don’t take initiative of this in a decent amount of time life WILL smack you in the face when you least expect it. It still feels like yesterday being 7 years old, obsessed with Harry Potter (not much has changed there) and not having a care in the world. Responsibilities? What are those?

You will learn who your friends are whether you appreciate the timing or not.
Life doesn’t go on your time, everything happens whether you’re wanting it to or not. People reach different points in their lives at different times; some may go down different paths. Sooner or later you will be able to recognize those that are mere acquaintances and those that are true friends. Get over the whole “keep your friends close, and keep your enemies closer”–it’s seriously not worth your time. It will lead to more struggle than peace.

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READING The Universe Of Us by Lang Leav

Someone like you

Do you think there is the possibility of you & I? In this lifetime, is that too much to hope for? There is something so delicate about this time, so fragile. And if nothing ever comes of it, at least I have known this feeling, this wonderful sense of optimism. It is something I can always keep close to me-to draw from my darkest hour like a ray of unspent sunshine. No matter what happens next, I will always be glad to know there is someone like you in the world.

 down ideas and already composing my next blog/vlog topics.

LISTENING  Olivia O’brien – Empty

But I’m empty inside, yeah I’m empty inside
And I don’t wanna live, but I’m too scared to die
Yeah I’m empty inside, I just don’t feel alive
And I don’t wanna live, but I’m too scared to die

THINKING of my family’s next travel destination. It’s something we’d like to do at least once a year, and we’ll be doing it on October, which most countries have the best weather! 

FEELING excited about the many things I have in mind to keep my blog and vlog active! 

WANTING another beach getaway! Preferably it involves a 2 hour roadtrip which makes it more fun, or, even somewhere far and new.


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A strong woman like you deserves someone like this..

You deserve someone who loves you with every single beat of his heart, someone who thinks about you constantly, someone who spends every minute of every day just wondering what you’re doing, where you are, who you’re with, and if you’re OK. You need someone who can help you reach your dreams and protect you from your fears. You need someone who will treat you with respect, love every part of you, especially your flaws. You should be with someone who could make you happy, really happy, dancing on air happy.

– Where Rainbows End by Cecelia Ahern

Because you do, believe you do.

And he’s somewhere out there. Praying to meet and be with a woman like you.

A woman like you who is strong and independent; who knows her worth and won’t let anyone, not even him, to define her in any way.

A woman who will never settle, because she knows exactly what she wants and how to get it.

A woman who is confident and can do just about anything she puts her heart into.

A woman who have yet to find that special someone and doesn’t fret about it because she’s too focused on being the best version of herself, and believes that everything that’s meant to be will be. 

The kind of strong woman who is not afraid to show her weaknesses regardless of how independent she is; who lets her guard down because she trusts him enough to bare her soul to him and let him know that he is one of the most important person in her life.

A fiercely intelligent woman who has a certain kind of wisdom gained from her own experiences; from a plethora of mistakes and a life full of lessons.

A woman with the kindest heart whose compassion is an essential part of her life and finds joy in it. 

And lastly, because you’re the woman who also prayed for a man like him; and the two of you waited patiently and gracefully for God’s perfect timing and you know that once the time is right, nothing will ever go wrong.


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25 things I learned by 25



People say your 20s are the most important years of your life. When your in your 20s, you’re never too young or too old for anything. It is your 20s when it is very much acceptable that you still haven’t figured out your life yet; your years of discovering and learning.

Now that I’m 25, halfway through my 20s, I took it upon myself to compile 25 things that life has taught me in my 25 years of existence.

  1. What you don’t know won’t hurt you.
  2. Most of the time, holding on does more damage than letting go.
  3. Kindness is not overrated; It can never be.
  4. Time heals most wounds, only if you let it.
  5. Life is not meant to be easy. Don’t be so hard on yourself, give yourself a break.
  6. Most of the things that you worry about now won’t even matter eventually.
  7. Always look out for yourself. It’s not being selfish, it’s just that in the end, you won’t have anyone else to help you but yourself.
  8. There is no right time to do things. It is when you decide it is.
  9. Not everyone is going to like you. What others think of you shouldn’t matter.
  10. If you’ve got nothing nice to say, it’s better to keep it to yourself. Not only will you hurt the person involved, but even yourself.
  11. .. and let’s not forget, what goes around comes back around. Karma is a bitch.
  12. Cut the toxic people out of your life. Life is too short to waste your time and energy on people who make you feel like crap.
  13. The only person you should compare yourself to is your old self.
  14. Have patience and always have faith that better things are coming.
  15. It’s okay to not be okay. Surrender your feelings and cry if you have to.
  16. Your body will change. Accept and love it anyway.
  17. Failures only make you wiser and stronger.
  18. You’ve only had a bad day, life is good and too beautiful to ponder on the negatives.
  19. Always, always be grateful. A grateful heart is a happy heart.
  20. Let go and let God. Stop stressing over things or situations that you cannot control.
  21. Learn to appreciate the little things. Happiness starts there, my friend.
  22. Feed your soul. With books, good food, breath-taking places, awesome company, etc.
  23. Staying in can be just as fun as going out. Take time to enjoy your own company.
  24. Age is but a number. It doesn’t have to define who you are, where you are, or where you are going in life.
  25. And most of all, you don’t have to have it all figured out at 25.


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